Tag Archives: life

Share Both

Posted on November 21, 2021 by Ray V.

I am not sure where this story is going to end up, or if it will even make sense when it is completed, but however it ends, I am called to share it.  An hour later, as I edit it … Continue reading →

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Kobayashi Maru

Posted on October 20, 2021 by Ray V.

A few weeks back, I was talking to a colleague who I  respect and enjoy being around. We were sharing  the ups and downs of each of our careers over the years and my friend brought up how we often … Continue reading →

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“Plan B” Is A Much Better Option

Posted on September 12, 2021 by Ray V.

Today was a rare (well, maybe not that rare) Sunday that I had to go in to the office for a few hours. On my way in, I stopped by the beach and watched the sun rise at exactly 0700 … Continue reading →

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And Then Its Time To Go

Posted on May 19, 2021 by Ray V.

Since I am a contrarian by nature, I will look ahead as opposed to looking behind me on this TBT. It’s been a few years since I shared this photo. It still makes me think every time I see it.  … Continue reading →

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Someone Has To Do It

Posted on April 20, 2021 by Ray V.

People often ask me how I can be a funeral director?  Isn’t it emotionally draining is just one of the many questions I get asked day in and day out in addition to those asking about the “raw data of … Continue reading →

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In Closing

Posted on April 6, 2021 by Ray V.

The inventor of the treadmill died at the age of 54 The inventor of gymnastics died at 57 The world bodybuilding champion died at 41 The best footballer in the world died at 60 But. . . The inventor of … Continue reading →

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Life’s Viewfinder

Posted on July 28, 2020 by Ray V.

Life is like a camera.  . .  Just focus on what’s important and capture the good times. . . develop from the negatives and if things don’t work out. . . Just take another shot. -unknown I suppose there is … Continue reading →

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Friday, 5pm Thoughts

Posted on May 4, 2019 by Ray V.

Another week concluding with another Friday. The end before another beginning. Seven days closer to assuming room temperature. Thoughts swirl, questions center on dashed hopes. Haunted by the questions at 0300. Building bridges to places that don’t exist and probably … Continue reading →

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The Strains Of Life

Posted on April 6, 2019 by Ray V.

The perfect song to reflect on a not so perfect week. I know there are a few others that have faced some unusual challenges this last week. Regardless of what is happening, “count your blessings, count them one, two three”. … Continue reading →

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But Compared To What?

Posted on November 14, 2018 by Ray V.

Historically, I share this song in January, but today, I can’t stop thinking about the hook line. “It’s often said that life is strange, oh yes, but compared to what?” New Days  Surprises Wishes fulfilled Miracles

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